Internet Safety
The Internet is likely an important part of your child’s social life and even their schoolwork. But there are many risks they face online. Communicating with your child and setting boundaries for their Internet usage will help keep them safe.
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Feeling Uncomfortable
When your teen visits chat rooms or social networking websites, they can be exposed to inappropriate information and images. Strangers can make advances to your child through instant messenger and even their cell phones. Make sure your child knows that it’s okay to say no in these situations. If they are uncomfortable, they should end the conversation immediately or leave the webpage in question.
Physical Danger
One of the most serious ways your child can come into harm’s way online is if they give out their personal information. If given to the wrong person, it can put them in physical danger. Talk with your kids about the information that they post on their websites and give to friends online. No one wants to think about what could happen if the wrong person approached your child online, but consider these guidelines to help keep them safe:
- Avoid giving out information about where you live, especially to strangers.
- Be careful with the pictures you post; they may attract unwanted attention.
- Never agree to meet a stranger.
- Be careful not to discuss where you go on a daily basis.
Privacy and Financial Risk
With all the pop-up ads and spam email received on a daily basis, it can be hard to recognize each time that you might be scammed online. Talk to your teen about keeping their personal information personal.
If they are allowed to make purchases online, help them to look for secure payment sites. Teach them about “phishing,” the practice of illegally gaining sensitive information, like usernames, passwords and credit card details, by masquerading as a trustworthy group.
Cyber-Bullying and Harassment
If your child is online, there is always the possibility that someone will send them mean, harassing or demeaning messages. Let your teen know that it’s not okay for people to do this. Teach them that they should end contact with the offender immediately.
If the messages are persistent or if they contain indecent or obscene material, you should consider reporting them to your Internet service provider and the local police department. They may be considered harassment, which is a federal offense.

